Friday, December 4, 2009

People cant look me in the eyes?

Everyone, friends, girlfriends, and family tells me that they cant look me in the eye. They say its deep, sad, scary or something. Im thinking it might be an effect of my eye color, its so dark and deep brown that unless youre nose to nose with me, they look like black holes. Any idea how to do i guess fix this? people are always uncomfortable and always have to look away.People cant look me in the eyes?
Contacts are the easy way to go and a good suggestion by NoWhereMan. Another option you could try first would be to study body language and learn how to appear a bit ';intimidated'; or ';shy'; yourself. There's more too it than just this, but starting with not looking into their eyes would be a start, but rather glance at their eyes briefly occasionally. Contacts, as I said, are an easier way to go because you would want to be careful not to over do the shy look to the point that you appear too weak and you don't want to constantly have your eyes darting around when talking to people. Anyone talking to you one on one who you quickly dart your eyes around but at different parts of their body can also intimidate them more as if you're looking for weak points to hurt them; so be careful with this body language and eye diversion tactic and really do a bit to study it by at least researching it a bit on the web.People cant look me in the eyes?
Stop thinking about your eyes, smile and laugh, it deflects the looks to your mouth and puts people at ease!
get contacts of a lighter hue, nothing really noticable, just lighter than black

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